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Relationships
by Mike Nduati
Relationships are a very serious part of human society. In a relationship, it is important to
understand what to do and not to do. Remember to follow your feelings and emotions in a
relationship.
What to look for…
- For two people to get into a relationship, there has to be some physical attraction.
Men tend to look more at outward appearances, as physical attraction is very important to them.
- Women, on the other hand, are more interested in inner feelings and the intricate
qualities of a person.
- Apart from physical attraction, there is an emotional aspect of simply enjoying the
company of another.
- These emotions develop over time as two people are together, leading to feelings of
comfort and satisfaction with each other (this is considered love, often the ultimate goal
of a relationship).
- The people in a relationship are responsible for its every turn; they may nurture it or
destroy it.
- Honesty, love and trust form the basics of a relationship. You have to be open with
your partner if you expect the same from them.
- You have to be committed to your partner. This may develop gradually, but it is a sign
of a strong bond.
- A relationship also means being there for one another and understanding each person's
individual needs.
- People in a healthy relationship really know each other, not just on the surface, but
they know what the other person is really about.
- Love only grows when two people are truly committed to each other.
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